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Jun
05
Posted by admin on
June 5, 2008
Many people refuse to even consider online dating. When you ask them why, you get reasons that range from skepticism about the whole process to fear of what they maybe getting into. A lot of people just want to stick with the tried and true traditional dating. They figure the risks will be a lot less than meeting someone they have never seen in person.
While that is a fair point, it seems to neglect the fact that traditional dating also contains a certain amount of risk. For instance even if a good friend sets you up with a blind date, you have no idea of what you maybe walking into. Yet thousands of people every year still go out on blind dates.
Online dating is no different and like the offline world you have to practice caution and common sense when hooking up for the first time.
1. The Meeting Place
No matter how much you two hit it off when you are chatting online, keep in mind you still do not really know each other. Do not kid yourself into believing that meeting at your house or theirs will put both of you at ease and make the date go better. It might but do not take that chance. You can do perfectly well learning about the other person in a public place. In addition, stay away from secluded areas and places with poor lighting. You can always do some reconnaissance work and scope out the meeting place ahead of time. Try to avoid any first date that appears to start a little too late in the evening. If you are jittery bring along a chaperone and encourage your date to do the same.
2. Transportation
If the two of you have your own cars, then use them. Do not offer to pick your date up and vice versa. Do not have a vehicle? Then make arrangements with a friend or a family member (offer to pay for gas). In the event that your people cannot provide transportation, carry money for a cab or just catch the bus. Politely decline if your date does offer a ride. If you two are on the same wavelength they should understand where you are coming from.
3. Non alcoholic
Drinking has long been a part of the social scene. Nothing wrong with that but try your best to avoid it on your first date. If you do drink, keep it to just one (preferably something very mild) and nurse it. It is not that you are on a quest to get drunk; maybe one beverage does not even affect you but it can impair your judgment no matter how minuscule. When you are on this first date, you want and need all of your faculties to be sharp.
4. Tell someone
Do not just walk out of the house without letting your family and friends know where you are going. If you have a cell phone carry it with you. Make sure you check in with them during and after the date; especially afterwards. To check in during the date, just excuse yourself briefly. The key word here is BRIEFLY. Being away too long might make your date a little nervous.
5. Listen to You
Your mind is telling you the evening is going very well but your intuition is ringing like a five alarm fire bell. If it does not feel right to you then cut the date short and leave at once. Do not be embarrassed and you are under no obligation to go into a detailed explanation of why. Just politely make your apologies and go. Trust your intuition and let it play a major role in your decision making process. Better an awkward exit now then a bad situation later.
Dating carries risks when you are meeting someone for the first time. Sure you want to be relaxed and have a great time but you still must practice some safety tips. Meeting someone new can be exhilarating but to keep it on the positive side requires a little common sense and caution on your part.
by Daryl Campbell
May
24
Posted by admin on
May 24, 2008
Don’t ever be a lousy bad date on that first date!
Making a favorable first impression on your first date with a woman is very important. Only if you succeed in getting her attention will you have the chance for that second date. So that first date decides the future of your relationship with the woman.
Dating Tip #1
It is only a first date and and not a wife hunting expedition so make friends first. Be yourself and relax. It is crucial to act like you really are so that she gets to know you and like you for what you are.
Dating Tip #2
Be punctual. If you are late , you are telling her that you don’t treasure the first get-together. She likes it when she sees you turning your head left and right, front and back, looking out for her. Her smile as she walks towards you will confirm that.
Dating Tip #3
Don’t buy her any expensive present because you can not buy yourself a second date and you don’t want to set the wrong impression or worse, establish a wrong precedent. The appropriate thing to do is to get her a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolate.
Dating tip #4
You have to make the conversation interesting so that she wants to go out with you again. Choose a topic that’s easy to talk about. Don’t focus on yourself because she may think you are too self-centered and therefore a real turn off. If you want, you can talk about things you were attracted to her but be careful, don’t make her uncomfortable.
Dating tip #5
Men always compliment women because they knew women like to hear such stuff. True but don’t bark on the wrong tree. Never use cheesy compliments and clichéd pick up lines. A woman is quick to spot a compliment that is fake and borrowed. Nothing can be more harmful than lousy compliments.
PS: If you are one of those who can’t seem to get dates. You can check out this website on how to become an alpha male. A bloke said the tips there were rather helpful. I don’t need it but if you think you can do with some pointers, go find out. Of course, feel free to share with you if the suggestions work or not.
May
11
Posted by admin on
May 11, 2008
Guys, this is an example of a lousy bad date provided to me by one of my female friends.
“He is not a cheapskate but he sure gave the impression of one.”
Huh?
“Whenever he asked me out to dine, he will only go to those restaurants and cafes that his privilege card grant him a 5%-15% discount. Granted that some of these restaurants are in 4-star and 5-star hotels but after a while, it’s kinda boring. I sort of know it will be that few places and that takes away all the excitement out of the dates. It became predictable, routine and therefore boring.”
So how?
“Sometimes, I would rather dine with my other dates and see him for a movie or a drink. He reminded me too much of my grandmother who would only shop with coupons!”
For that he’s a lousy, bad date?
“Well, yes, a lousy date for wine and dine”
So, guys, take heed and don’t over use that privilege card when dining and wining a girl.
Feb
15
Posted by admin on
February 15, 2008
News from Toronto, Ontario (January 20, 2008)
POSITIVESINGLES.COM adds new feature: “Ask STD counselor” - adding more support for its members than just dating services.
Finding your match when you are suffering from an STD can be easier than you think. Starting from January 15, 2008, members at PositiveSingles.com can ask a STD counselor questions as well as continuing to enjoy updated information about all STDs, various STD forums, uploading pictures, sending e-mails or winks to other members and you can have a limited free membership.
Thousands of people get STDs and don’t realize it. Having an STD could lead to confusion, resentment, anger, and isolating of yourself. One might even be filled with many questions.
According to the CDC, there are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans are affected by HPV.
With STD, many people are afraid to reach out to the people whom they are closest to. The stigma attached to people with infectious diseases suddenly becomes personal. They are afraid of losing friendships and family altogether. This fear can quickly become a reality due to a lack of education.
PositiveSingles.com recently added a STD counselor to the site that has accurate information about STDs. The information that the STD counselor provides covers the most updated information about STDs. The STD counselor can answer such questions as: where to get HPV shots, support group listings, counseling services, relationship questions or any other questions a STD sufferer might have. Information regarding STD testing are also provided when requested.
Members get quality information in addition to the core dating services. Thousands of people on PositiveSingles.com meet, date and get married. Before the members meet they can talk to someone who is facing the same issues that they are facing and share with someone who has the same concerns. By talking about these issues, members can learn new ways to approach a person and stay emotionally stable. Some of the members of PositiveSingles.com are learning how to deal an STD that changed their lives. Some people are looking for a local relationship or partner who lives nearby. The sharing and support of a problem creates a healthy and positive atmosphere.
About PositiveSingles.com
PositiveSingles.com was launched in 08-Aug-2002, and markets its services around the world. The founding team’s vision is to build a community for people with STDs, where they can find friendship, support, and love! It is ranked the #1 website for online dating for those with STDs. 3/5 of those members are living with HSV, 1/5 with HIV/AIDS, 1/10 with HPV. There are more STDs. Hundreds of members join every day. Beyond the networking of relationships, PositiveSingles.com has medical information and success stories. Those affected by a disease and those around them are staying positive and strong. The family and friends of an individual with an STD can be very supportive as well. For more information, visit http://www.PositiveSingles.com .
*Source: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/stds-hiv-safer-sex/herpes.htm
http://www.whitehouse.gov/omb/expectmore/summary/10002162vositiveSingles.com
