Are You Ready for the Life of the Sugar Daddy?

Posted by admin on November 14, 2008

Do you think that you are ready to live the life of the sugar daddy? Are you ready to live life in the fast lane - working long hours to reap the rewards of a high paying career, driving fast cars - luxury roadsters from the world’s most reputable and sought after manufacturers - and of course meeting great women?

If so, take a closer look at the life you are living. A sugar daddy:

1. focuses on establishing himself. This means taking an early interest in education and how to put the information and skills that he learns to work for him;

2. dedicates himself to doing the hard work. This means committing to a job, working long hours and working his way to the top - often becoming successful much more quickly than his peers;

3. sets goals and achieves them. In other words, rather than thinking “Someday, I would like to travel to Asia,” a sugar daddy sets his mind to it. A sugar daddy thinks, “In five years, I want to take a month long trip to Japan; in order to make that happen, I will need to. . .” A sugar daddy makes his list of goals - goals for travel, income, cars, homes and even experiences - and then commits to achieving his goal, one step at a time; and

4. knows that he needs companionship, because no one would want to go through life alone. In the case of a sugar daddy, this companionship often comes in the form of a sugar babe or sugar baby; a beautiful woman - often a bit younger - for whom the sugar daddy can care and take care of.

In other words, becoming a sugar daddy means making a commitment to a lifestyle.

True, this lifestyle comes with wealth and glamour. It’s a lifestyle that lends itself to driving fast cars. It’s a lifestyle that comes with a fashionable home that is stylish inside and out. It’s a lifestyle that is dressed designer clothing and shoes and accented with the right jewelry - a sharp ring and a great watch. But it’s not a lifestyle that comes without a price.

That price is commitment. That price is drive. It means getting the right education. It means finding the right career path. And it means always putting in more than everyone else - sometimes working longer hours, sometimes tackling the more challenging projects because they come with the greatest rewards as wall as being willing to sacrifice relationships for getting to the top.

Though some of those relationships exist within the workplace, some sugar daddies find that relationships outside of the office suffer as well. They maintain friendships, and can make the time they need to get out and spend time with the guys. Some have trouble with dating as well.

This isn’t because there is a shortage of beautiful women. It isn’t because there is a shortage of younger women who do not want to be seen with a great-looking, talented and successful guy. In fact, it’s merely a matter of meeting the right woman - an honest woman, a woman with dreams and goals that mesh well with your own.

Finding that woman is - like all goals of sugar daddies - possible.

Are you focused on achieving your goals? Are you committed to success in all areas of your life - career, home, travel and relationships? Do you want to be stylish, comfortable - and even envied? If so, you may be ready for the life of the sugar daddy.

It’s hard work, but somebody’s got to do it. Many already have - finding that focusing on education and hard work can lead to a rich life, the life that most people only dream of living.

By Sayyat S

PS: If you intend to find yourself a sugar daddy or be a sugar daddy, at least be a successful about it. This website might help you in one way or another, KISSING 101.

Why Married Men Find Boomer Women Attractive

Posted by admin on July 13, 2008

Sometimes my women clients find themselves in a rut of attracting married men. This is actually different than being attracted to married men. There are a number of reasons why married men might find you attractive:

1. If you’re dating in mid life, there are lots of married or unavailable men - that’s just a fact. According to the census, 50% are taken, but that doesn’t mean they stop looking or (for some) stop considering their options.

2. You are attractive. If you’re a good looking woman who keeps herself in shape, men are going to look. This is actually positive because it proves that you are attractive. Think of this as flattery and evidence from the Universe of your appeal. But keep in mind, you don’t need to follow up with any of these unavailable men.

3. You’re new, you’re fun, you’re fresh meat. This resembles the “New Cow Theory” from the movie of the same name with Ashley Judd and Hugh Jackman. The idea being that with cattle, bulls never want to mate with the same cow twice. They always want a new cow because they are ensuring survival of the species. Now women are not cows and men are not bulls, and all men don’t always need a new woman. But some married men do have that grass is greener attitude.

However, all women do not run into this problem with the same frequency. For some, it seems like the only men attracted to them are married. So what’s at the bottom of this attraction situation? Here are a few reasons why this might be happening. Maybe there’s a part of you that:

* Doesn’t really believe you’ll find a decent, available guy
* Thinks all the good men are taken
* Believes all men are scoundrels
* Worries that you’ll never have a good relationship

These beliefs can really get in the way of meeting single, available men.But I do have two powerful suggestions that may help shift your focus to imagining and MANifesting the right man for you:

1. Start believing that there are great single men out there. Think positively along these lines several times a day. Shifting your thinking opens you to more possibilities. Everyone wants to be right. Maybe you remain right about men, when you attract cheaters - proving your point - that there are no good men. Start believing there ARE good men, and make yourself right by finding evidence of good men out there.

2. Ask yourself, “What am I doing to meet men and am I really open to getting to know different types of guys? This exercise can be very revealing because often women discover they say “no” far more often than “yes” to meeting new men. See if you can say “yes” to a broader spectrum of guys online or where ever meet them and just try to get to know them as people. There are no perfect men (or women) but chances are very strong that there is someone just right for you.

By Ronnie Ann Ryan