How to Kiss Like An Expert

If you don’t know how to kiss, you are in trouble … especially if it is the first date. Women like to tell their friends about their first dates, and their friends love the question: “Did you two kiss?”. You surely don’t want to be the laughing stock for not knowing how to kiss properly.

“Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn’t expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.

Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don’t go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I’m sure that women find it even more bizarre. Be Gentle

The first kiss must be gentle. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don’t be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman’s throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.

After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn’t move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual. Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss

Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don’t start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she’ll think you’re just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don’t just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: “I don’t want to miss even a millimeter of your lips.” Relax And Breathe”

If you still don’t think you can kiss like an expert, I suggest you pop over to this website call KISSING 101 to get some tips.

Extracted from the article, Kissing Advice That Will Ensure Your Success With Women, by Jesse Allen

5 Dating Tips for Men On The First Date

Don’t ever be a lousy bad date on that first date!

Making a favorable first impression on your first date with a woman is very important. Only if you succeed in getting her attention will you have the chance for that second date. So that first date decides the future of your relationship with the woman.

Dating Tip #1
It is only a first date and and not a wife hunting expedition so make friends first. Be yourself and relax. It is crucial to act like you really are so that she gets to know you and like you for what you are.

Dating Tip #2
Be punctual. If you are late , you are telling her that you don’t treasure the first get-together. She likes it when she sees you turning your head left and right, front and back, looking out for her. Her smile as she walks towards you will confirm that.

Dating Tip #3
Don’t buy her any expensive present because you can not buy yourself a second date and you don’t want to set the wrong impression or worse, establish a wrong precedent. The appropriate thing to do is to get her a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolate.

Dating tip #4
You have to make the conversation interesting so that she wants to go out with you again. Choose a topic that’s easy to talk about. Don’t focus on yourself because she may think you are too self-centered and therefore a real turn off. If you want, you can talk about things you were attracted to her but be careful, don’t make her uncomfortable.

Dating tip #5
Men always compliment women because they knew women like to hear such stuff. True but don’t bark on the wrong tree. Never use cheesy compliments and clichéd pick up lines. A woman is quick to spot a compliment that is fake and borrowed. Nothing can be more harmful than lousy compliments.

PS: If you are one of those who can’t seem to get dates. You can check out this website on how to become an alpha male. A bloke said the tips there were rather helpful. I don’t need it but if you think you can do with some pointers, go find out. Of course, feel free to share with you if the suggestions work or not.

Hey Girl, Do You Think You’re Cursed To Live Without Love?

You see women everywhere go through this frustrating dilemma, and you probably have experienced it in the past as well - there are times when you sit down and think that having a happy, fulfilling, long-term relationship with a great man is simply impossible.

Sure, women may think that it’s still possible, but they can at the same time think of a million different reasons why a relationship won’t work. It’s sad, really, seeing so many women think so negatively about their prospects of getting into a good relationship.

What’s sadder is the fact that these women - who are all beautiful, smart, and engaging in real life - make one fatal mistake that kills any hope of finding a man who’s both willing and able to provide the love these women wish for in their relationships…

they let their minds get in the way.

In other words, they let their minds decide what their hearts should feel… and the mind can be a lousy judge of emotion. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, some time before a big date, that it might be better if you didn’t meet him, or not to open up, or not to love - then you know what I mean.

Another trap that many women walk into is letting the past get in the way. Some women come off of bad relationships, then choose to make those bad relationships into benchmarks to compare their future relationships with. It doesn’t matter if they try to keep all the good stuff in their past relationships or stay away from the bad stuff - it will always keep these women from being receptive to any new men who would walk into their lives.

The problem is that most women insist on thinking this way about relationships, since alternative approaches and mindsets towards love seem so degrading or unfair (such as the idea of being the one to move a relationship forward for a guy). And some women are so hopelessly dependent on these “ideas” about men that they unknowingly keep themselves from naturally settling into a relationship with a man - which, by the way, is how things should work.

Here’s the thing - women are supposed to simply be themselves, and remember to be themselves, no matter how badly some of their previous relationships turn out. If you’ve gone through the problems listed in this article, then you’ll need to look at your previous relationships - and the way you see men - in a different light. Instead of using them as benchmarks to judge the next men to walk into your life, use them to learn how to improve your own performance in your relationships.

Put simply, if you think that the problems in your relationship stem from the men in your life, then you’ll be forever waiting to be saved by the “perfect” man - which probably won’t happen anytime soon. Instead, if you focus on fixing the problems you think you have, then you’ll naturally draw the right kind of men into your life.

By A Aaron

What your pick-up lines?

Pick up lines are two edged swords. Either the woman loves it or hates it. Genuine conversation starters, instead of using a lame pick up line, is a better option. If you really can’t think of anything to say, you can try a cute pick up line but it must come across as a genuine compliment. Otherwise, good luck, the chances of getting a tight slap is high.

Some women will think these are cheesy but some may actually fall for them

“I don’t think I have met you before, or I would have remembered a good-looking woman like you”

“I’ve had a lousy day today. It always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. And your smile brightens my day”

“Is it hot in here, or is it just you?”

“Weren’t you on the cover of Vogue?”

“Right now I feel like Richard Gere, because I am standing next to a Pretty Woman.”

“There aren’t enough O’s in the word hot to describe how hot you are.”

What’s your favourite pick up line?

How to tell if He is a Lousy Date

Man unconsciously force a woman to sometimes to reject you because he is behaving like a lousy bad date? Yes sometimes men do things or don’t do things which instantly kill all the attraction women naturally feel towards you. These are just 3 tips I gathered after all these years with women.

Asking all the wrong questions too early- Some men want to know his women faster so they thought the best strategy is to ask. Right. However, they did it the wrong way. The problem is that most of these questions are either too personal or shouldn’t be asked on the very first date. If you make a lousy first impression, it’s extremely difficult to get future dates. The first chance is your last chance.

Asking about the past too much- Before a man knows a woman fairly well, don’t try to dig up the past. Some past is best kept buried until such a time that it can see the light. When the time is ripe, the girl will tell whether you ask or not. Be patient about this. If you can’t help yourself, OK, ask but quit when you see that she is uncomfortable. She is entitled to her past and you have no business in her past.

Trying to be someone you aren’t- This is an instant kill-joy. Anytime she thinks that you are not genuine, she will lose interest in you. Anyway, how long can you fake? Unless you want to change for the girl, don’t pretend as you definitely cannot keep up with your performance and lies. Besides, it is real tiring.

Guys, if you have any tips how not to be a lousy date or how to be a nice date, feel free to share here. This invite is open to women as well.

How to tell if She is a Lousy Date?

If she showed any of these signs of being a lousy, bad date, be prepared to write your good-bye script:

1. She’s always late and offers no apology or explanation whatsoever. Worse, you can detect her lousy excuses as lies.

2. She lies and you know it, and somehow you felt that she knew you saw through her bluff.

3. You keep asking her for her home number and she gave a flat no every time. Any normal woman that’s keen to develop the relationship further will not mind you calling her at home.

4. She doesn’t look straight into your eyes, or face, when she talks to you.

5. She is not keen to meet with your friends or your family. Of course, she hasn’t ask you to meet with her friends or her family.

6. She is always busy and hardly available - morning, afternoon, night, weekdays or weekends. She offers no explanation either.

7. She likes to gossip about other people. Trust me on this one, if you tell her your secrets, she’s going to pass it on.

8. She’s a very selfish and petty person. She is unlikely to forgive you for the little things you didn’t do or done wrongly.

So, what do you do if you’re dating someone with these warning signs? I don’t know about you, but I think these women made lousy dates. I’m pretty normal so I would always go for nice dates.

Don’t be A Cheapskate When Dining & Wining a Girl

Guys, this is an example of a lousy bad date provided to me by one of my female friends.

“He is not a cheapskate but he sure gave the impression of one.”

Huh?

“Whenever he asked me out to dine, he will only go to those restaurants and cafes that his privilege card grant him a 5%-15% discount. Granted that some of these restaurants are in 4-star and 5-star hotels but after a while, it’s kinda boring. I sort of know it will be that few places and that takes away all the excitement out of the dates. It became predictable, routine and therefore boring.”

So how?

“Sometimes, I would rather dine with my other dates and see him for a movie or a drink. He reminded me too much of my grandmother who would only shop with coupons!”

For that he’s a lousy, bad date?

“Well, yes, a lousy date for wine and dine”

So, guys, take heed and don’t over use that privilege card when dining and wining a girl.

Don’t Ask A Girl Out with Text Message!

Don’t invite a girl out with text message! Or you are seen as a lousy bad date.

I was having lunch with some long time pals and this girl started reeling off her pet peeve on lousy dates. Naturally, I paid her my full attention.

#1: Don’t ever think of inviting me out via a text message. Am I not worth your time to pick up the telephone to make a personal invitation? I will admire the guy’s guts for opening his mouth. The chances of me saying yes is much, much higher than to a text message.

#2. Don’t even think of doing so after the first date either. I still need to get to know him better. Text message is cold and definitely NOT SEXY.

#3. How do I know if he didn’t blast the same text message to a whole bunch of women hoping that some of us bite, which gives him an opportunity to pick, choose and schedule a timing? I’m not that desperate!

Okay, point noted. It could be an unfair burden for the guys, but a personal invite comes with an advantage: It will make you stand out from the mass of other men who text instead of calling. So many people are conditioned to communicate through text messages that to receive a phone call is a generously romantic gesture to many women.

Guys, we have to be the debonair and caring really nice dates !

Online Dating Gets Better Dates?

How not to be a lousy bad date? Ethel at Thel Talk asked:

Imagine how it is like to date in the real world. How many nights have you asked your friends to set you up on a blind date, only to get frustrated? How many weekends have you gone to a bar in hopes of meeting someone, yet again end up frustrated? How many times have you asked a friend to watch a movie with you, or to dinner, yet boldly tells you in the end that you are just not their type?

Is that why online dating has blossomed so much over the last few years? A search on the internet revealed many benefits of getting a really nice date online

1. Anonymity - The most important benefit to online dating is safety. When you sign up at any given dating and matchmaking service, you can remain anonymous to everyone. You don’t have to give out any identifying information unless you chose to.

2. Security- Most dating sites allow you to report a user who is harassing you.. You can also have certain people blocked from contacting you within the site or even have their user rights revoked if they are being really malicious. This type of protection does not exist when you are scoping for singles in a bar.

3. Free Lots of online dating services allow you to sign up and create a profile FOC. You can cruise the site for potential matches without paying a cent. Only when you found someone you like to communicate would you need to subscribe as a paying member.

4. Single’s heaven> - At an online dating site, you can find thousands of singles where you can potentially find an absolute perfect match. Of course, you have to do your due diligence to ascertain they are truly singles as they claimed to be.

5. Low Cost- You can date as many people online as you want and for as long as you want, for around $20 per month. That is a huge difference to dating in person and spending tens to hundreds of dollars on one single outing.

6. Time You can get to know as many people you like at one time without diminishing the amount of your personal time.

7. Fear of Rejection is Eliminated- You can introduce yourself to hundreds of people painlessly, and if for some reasons they rejected your friendship, you will be able to handle the rejection easier. Online rejection is easier to stomach as you don’t see them face to face.

8. Honesty - When people date online they have the inclination to be more honest about who they are, what they stand for and what they value. The computer adds as a great buffer. However, the opposite can be true with folks painting a rosier picture than they actually are. So you got to be real careful on this.

Do you agree with these benefits? Let’s talk.