Archive for July, 2008
Jul
30
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July 30, 2008
Don’t ever think you know there is everything to know about sex. No matter what you know and practice there is always going to be small things you haven’t learned yet. I’m sure you have better things to do with your life than trying to learn everything about sex so when you can learn a new tip it definitely doesn’t hurt you.
1. Kissing is one of the oldest expressions of love. You can see it everywhere from a mother kissing her child good night. A grandmother giving her grandchild a good bye kiss or a very romantic French kiss between two lovers.
2. Nobody was born knowing how to kiss so just like anything else you get better with practice. It’s not an easy thing to get a bunch of practice in this so don’t be embarrassed when you’re not very good at it at first.
3. We can thank the French for introducing the act of French Kissing. While kissing has always been a universal sign of love French Kissing or the intimate play of tongues was introduced to us by the western world, from there it has spread around the world.
4. You can’t rush that first kiss with a new girl. You have to make sure that the girl is willing to go for this kiss. If she looks nervous and fidgety then it might not be the right time to go for that first kiss. This might be a good time to give her some space.
5. I would not recommend French kissing on the first date unless Read the rest of this entry »
Jul
29
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July 29, 2008
With thousands of singles out there you must have something that sets you apart from the rest. If you blend into the crowd you will likely be overlooked. So your question is how can I do that? Well, we will divulge that in this article. If you are having trouble finding singles dates look no further. Singles dating is one of the best way to find someone that you are compatible with and would like to get to know better.
The most frequently stated comment in singles dating is, “I just can’t find a date.” Most often times the answer is simple and something that the person is overlooking. It may be that they are still attached to their ex-lover or they have a peculiar little imperfection that could be fixed. For example, if Jimmy has bushy eyebrows and one particular hair that is wiry and sticks out, what do you think his date will spend the night looking at? Well of course, looking at that wild hair. So the best thing for you to do is find a friend or family member that is brutally honest and ask. In most cases they will tell you what the problem is and why you may not get another date. In singles dating there is some obvious turn off that you should really try to avoid. Issues like body odor, bad breath, personal grooming and your conversation habits can really turn off that potential mate. So before you go out on your singles date, look in the mirror and ask would I want to go out with me?
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Jul
25
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July 25, 2008
A recent survey has revealed the fact that men who are on the lookout for potential partners prefer the girl next door rather than a drop-dread gorgeous artist. A very big percentage of people assess the sex appeal of the person of the opposite sex before they decide to approach them. These findings reveal to what extent the sex appeal as one of the attributes used for searching a mate matters. A perfect wife may be described as one who is sensual without necessarily being overtly sexy. She should be appealing sexually to the man but not totally attractive like a magnet to other men. Mini-skirts and long attractive hair are not very appealing to the man in question since he does not want to live with insecurities.
A good wife material can be described as one who is well educated and who earns considerably good amount of money. Many men would not prefer an aggressive professional woman. Many would opt for a kindergarten teacher over a lawyer. This description emerges from respondents who are given a list of choices to pick a potential date. Many chooses people who look like less a challenge to them. Both men and women share the view that the ideal husband should be some years older than the potential wife. They also have a perception that the husband should be preferably taller. Women tend to prefer greater differences compared to men. An older man has more sex appeal to majority of women.
Many people are so choosy when it comes to partners until they hit the of age of 40 after which they begin acquiring a don’t care attitude. They care less about slender body shape and are more attracted to nurse-like women. They are observed to prefer women who put on formal attire. What appeals them sexually changes compared to when they were younger. It is surprising to learn that men who have children are more specific compared to those who are childless. They are more drawn to a woman who dresses formally perhaps to counterpoint to their very own household preoccupations. The sex appeal is greatly influenced by the way of dressing of a potential wife.
At the back of every man’s mind the sex appeal determines Read the rest of this entry »
Jul
21
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July 21, 2008
Pressure from sociological forces such as TV programming, movies, advertising, family, and friends dictate that you must pair off for a long-term relationship and join the herd or “couples only” club.
While this is easy for those who happen to be fated to have a relationship with a compatible, long-term partner, what about everyone else?
Based on our extensive empirical research, you meet who you’re meant to meet when you’re meant to meet them. For those who don’t meet “the one” before age 30, 40, or whatever other age they feel they’re supposed to secure a “permanent” partner, it can cause a lot of anxiety and even depression.
If you’re single, rather than focusing on what you don’t have in your love life, we recommend embracing the benefits; there are many of being on your own, and we list some of them below.
1) Freedom. As a single person, you can do what you want, when you want. Yes, in a karmic sense, everything you do, say, and intend comes back to you either in this life and more often in a future life, but when you’re single you aren’t accountable to anyone else.
2) No compromising. Even people in compatible relationships need to compromise occasionally. As a single person, you don’t need to surrender anything unless you choose to.
3) More time to focus on other areas of your life. Career, health, friendship, and other goals can take center stage with all the energy you need to accomplish them.
4) No in-laws. As a single person, there are no obligations to spend time with people you may not really want to.
5) Solo vacations are fun (you meet more people).
6) If you live alone, your space is yours to do with as you please.
7) You can live out your fantasies, within ethical and legal boundaries, and no one will try to stop you or tell you that you are “wrong” if they don’t happen to agree.
You never have to deal with telling someone it’s over and having them try to guilt you into staying together. Read the rest of this entry »
Jul
13
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July 13, 2008
Sometimes my women clients find themselves in a rut of attracting married men. This is actually different than being attracted to married men. There are a number of reasons why married men might find you attractive:
1. If you’re dating in mid life, there are lots of married or unavailable men - that’s just a fact. According to the census, 50% are taken, but that doesn’t mean they stop looking or (for some) stop considering their options.
2. You are attractive. If you’re a good looking woman who keeps herself in shape, men are going to look. This is actually positive because it proves that you are attractive. Think of this as flattery and evidence from the Universe of your appeal. But keep in mind, you don’t need to follow up with any of these unavailable men.
3. You’re new, you’re fun, you’re fresh meat. This resembles the “New Cow Theory” from the movie of the same name with Ashley Judd and Hugh Jackman. The idea being that with cattle, bulls never want to mate with the same cow twice. They always want a new cow because they are ensuring survival of the species. Now women are not cows and men are not bulls, and all men don’t always need a new woman. But some married men do have that grass is greener attitude.
However, all women do not run into this problem with the same frequency. For some, it seems like the only men attracted to them are married. So what’s at the bottom of this attraction situation? Here are a few reasons why this might be happening. Maybe there’s a part of you that:
* Doesn’t really believe you’ll find a decent, available guy
* Thinks all the good men are taken
* Believes all men are scoundrels
* Worries that you’ll never have a good relationship
These beliefs can really get in the way of meeting single, available men.But I do have two powerful suggestions that may help shift your focus to imagining and MANifesting the right man for you:
1. Start believing that there are great single men out there. Think positively along these lines several times a day. Shifting your thinking opens you to more possibilities. Everyone wants to be right. Maybe you remain right about men, when you attract cheaters - proving your point - that there are no good men. Start believing there ARE good men, and make yourself right by finding evidence of good men out there.
2. Ask yourself, “What am I doing to meet men and am I really open to getting to know different types of guys? This exercise can be very revealing because often women discover they say “no” far more often than “yes” to meeting new men. See if you can say “yes” to a broader spectrum of guys online or where ever meet them and just try to get to know them as people. There are no perfect men (or women) but chances are very strong that there is someone just right for you.
By Ronnie Ann Ryan
Jul
09
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July 9, 2008
Speed dating is a great fun to do. This type of dating is more a social interaction then the actual romantic stuff. Many people just love this open dating style provided by the speed dating competitions.
One feels a lot of hesitation before going in the speed dating contests. The core issue is the type of questions one should ask from his “short-term” date. In speed dating, every one has a short time to converse with each of the other participants of the event. The time allocated to interact with each other can be as short as a minute or a maximum of ten minutes. It’s impossible to get to know each other in such a short span of time.
Here lies the key, as you move from person to person, you should take notes or have some other way in which to record your preliminary impressions of the people you’ve met. You can have a chance of socializing with them later on.
One should ask simple and brief questions during these short interactions. You can ask about the other person’s name, age, interests etc. Asking very personal questions like e-mail, phone number or address is considered too unruly for speed dating sessions. One must ask basic questions and that too rather quickly.
As you move from one table to another during the speed dating, it’s possible that you repeat the same questions for other potential dates. Well there is no harm in it but it would look better if you ask different questions from different people. There are plenty of questions you can ask like favorite color, season and so on and so forth. Also never forget to jot down the important aspects of each date as it will make easier the process of actual dating, if your scores match.
By Jimmy Shergill
Jul
05
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July 5, 2008
To succeed in dating, one must have a positive outlook and mindset. If you really want to find your lover and you are sincere about it, no one can stop you from achieving your target.
Online dating has become the norm these days and people find it difficult to excel in this field. One can easily find a partner if he or she follows some basic rules.
Don’t mention your past relationships
One should never mention his/her past experiences with potential mates, especially in early stages. That can be counterproductive and your potential lover may think that you are still involved with your ex. You just have to get over that feeling.
Be Self-Centered
Online dating is a tough game where you have to project yourself to a maximum level. This aspect requires you to be little selfish. You should never run after every Tom, Dick, Lisa or Mary on the online dating sites. If someone is not interested then you should also follow your own path.
Be Optimistic
Have a faith that you’ll definitely find a partner from the dating site. You should always be optimistic and full of life and energy. You can find long term relationships on the internet. You just have to accept that fact.
Have your own style
One should always follow his/her own style in online dating. If you try to follow others, then you would lessen your chances of meeting someone special. People like individuality and love to meet with people who have their own style.
Give respect, Get respect
If you treat others with respect, in return they’ll also give you respect. Relationships are made on mutual trust and bonding and you should always be true to your partner.
Have a superb profile
If you have a nice online presence then the chances of meeting your soul mate will also increase. It’s a global phenomenon that well defined online profiles get much more hits then those who are dull and boring.
Increase your exposure
The more you browse the internet dating portals and have a continued presence, the more people will take a notice of you. Always try to interact with the maximum number of people on these site, you’re just increasing your chances. It’s a game of marketing you know.
By Jimmy Shergill
Jul
01
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July 1, 2008
The dating world can be a very intimidating place. It’s even more so if you are a shy person. Trying to approach a woman you are interested in can become overwhelming if you find yourself feeling uncomfortable in social situations. With the right dating advice for shy guys you can learn how to strike up a conversation with an attractive woman and ensure that she finds you charming and intriguing.
One of the best pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to carefully choose where you go to meet women. Most men consider a crowded bar or nightclub the optimum choice. It’s not. If you are unsure about how to get a woman’s attention, going to a crowded nightspot will make it even more challenging. Most nightclubs will be packed with other single men all looking for the same thing you are. You’d do much better to go to a relaxed spot where you know you’ll have something to talk to a woman about. Pick a grocery store, hardware store or library. Not only will your competition be much less but it’s a lot easier to get her attention by asking about something as non-threatening as how delicious the fruit is at this time of year or what book she recommends.
Listening can sometimes be a lost art form, particularly in the singles scene. One of the most helpful pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to listen when you are interested in a woman. Once you approach here, ensure that you listen carefully to what she says. If you’ve been nervous in the past about what you’ll talk to an attractive woman about, that issue can be solved by listening and picking up on what she is saying. If she talks about her work, ask her questions about it. Not only will it keep the conversation flowing smoothly but your interest in her will really impress her too.
There’s no shame in bringing along some support when you are venturing out to meet women. Bring along a single friend and look to them for encouragement. It can be much easier to approach a woman if you are with someone else. She’ll likely also see you as less threatening. Once the conversation starts, your friend can politely excuse himself leaving you to focus just on the woman. This is great dating advice for shy guys because it can give them a little extra boost in confidence knowing they’ve got someone supportive nearby.
Women understand that not all men are lady killers. They are actually incredibly grateful for that fact. Once you get to know a woman, don’t be afraid to tell her that you are a little shy. It will give her some insight into how you’re feeling and it will make you feel better knowing she understands.
Even shy guys can have amazing success with beautiful women.
By Gillian Reynolds
