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Aug
28

Why is Eye Contact Important?

Posted by admin on August 28, 2008

Eye contact is one of the most powerful tools any man can use when attracting and seducing a woman. Strong eye contact is rare. If you make eye contact, you’d be surprised how quickly most people’s eyes will dart away. When you make eyes with a woman, never break eye contact first. Even if it has been 10 seconds (which is an Eternity when staring into the eyes of a stranger) do NOT BREAK. If anything, at that point you could stick your tongue out or something silly to break the tension.

Strong eye contact will turn a girl on. It shows that you are comfortable with yourself and others. A true alpha male will never break eye contact first, whether it be with a man or a woman. This might be very hard for you at first, but there is a simple task you can do which will give you strong eye contact skills. Walk around and make eye contact with everyone. Never break first. If its a guy chances are he’ll just look away, or if he holds it for a while usually a “whats up man” will follow as you pass. If a guy gets serious with you saying something dumb like “what are you lookin’ at buddy” just say “thought you were an old friend, guess I’m wrong.”

Doing this with girls is fun. Whatever reaction she gives you, you can feel free to give back. If you get a smile, give a smile. If you get a hi, give a hi. Confident girls will hold eye contact and almost always smile. Unconfident girls will look away. Work on this every day and you will have strong eye contact skills, possibly the most important tool for picking up girls.

By Nathan Tyrock

Aug
24

Make Women Attracted To You By Teasing Her

Posted by admin on August 24, 2008

Women are emotional beings, different from us, men. We think more by logic, women rely more on the emotional side of things. Thats why sometimes we find it so hard to understand women. One of those things is that women is always testing us. They are always doing something that will bother us or annoy us to see how we will react. In this article i will tell you why women test guys and how you can deal with it.

One of the main reasons that women test men is to make sure that you are Read the rest of this entry »

Aug
19

A Simple Technique To Know If A Women Likes You

Posted by admin on August 19, 2008

When you are in the beginning of the seduction game, it becomes quite scary to approach a girl without knowing if she likes you. It can ruin your self-esteem for some time. But for your luck, theres a simple technique that will allow you to know instantly if a girl likes you, in a few seconds. In this article i will tell how to use this very simple but effective technique to know if a girl likes you.

Do you know how eye contact is important? Read the rest of this entry »

Aug
15

Seduction - Its An Art - Learn The Basic Steps

Posted by admin on August 15, 2008

Seduction its an art. To become a master seducer you must possess certain abilities. Seduction is about gentle persuasion. Resist the urge to rip off her clothes at the heat of the moment. Seduction is a thing that a lot of men over years have researched, tried, and tested with varying results. Here are just a few things you should keep in mind when trying to seduce the woman of your dreams.

Seduction is about right now with a woman both physically and emotionally. Let’s face it if a woman has a choice between an athletic and fit body or a chubby body most women are going to choose the athletic and fit body. Seduction means your ability to trigger a woman’s attraction for you. This starts from the first moment you meet a woman. Seduction its an art.

Imagine yourself being in rapport with a woman in a social setting and being in this state. Imagine being able to have a stress-free and fun conversation with a woman. Now you can learn the art of talking with women confidently and easily. Imagine you forgot to brush your teeth or something like that!

Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want. The average guy, who’s riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women. Confidence and assuredness matter MUCH more than looks to women–yes, even the hot ones! Instead, have fun with yourself.

So the first steps to seduce a women is to be confident and make rapport with her. These are the basic steps that will build your foundation with women. Always keep learning and you will succeed.

By Johan M Krost

PS: OK, OK, if you can’t resist not to touch her, well, kiss her appropriately. Don’t know how? Go see this interesting website calls KISSING 101.

Aug
11

Why Is So Difficult To Seduce Women These Days?

Posted by admin on August 11, 2008

Picking up women sometimes comes down to specific seduction techniques. If you want increase your chances of attracting and seducing a woman, then you should learn about quality routines to use on girls. Picking up women is not easy but it is not difficult either. You just have to know what the right thing to do is.

Woman desire men who pay attention to detail, especially woman who are beautiful. Woman need to feel wanted and needed. They need to feel that they are the only one for you.

But they vital key to seduce women is confidence. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others will as well. Confidence and Cockiness are two things that women find irresistible. If you are confident in yourself a woman can see that and will be drawn to that. Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don’t let a rejection get under your skin.

Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don’t let a rejection Read the rest of this entry »

Aug
07

7 Amazing Ways To Let Her Know That You Are The Best Deal!

Posted by admin on August 7, 2008

Going on a date is a lot like going to a job interview - you wear your nicest clothes, you try to present yourself in the best light, and you worry about saying something stupid. And in both situations you’re trying to sell yourself to someone else. So what are the best things to do to show a woman that you’re a great catch?

1. Take extra care in your grooming. This is the first item on the list because it’s the most important. Good grooming shows other people that you care enough about yourself to do basic physical maintenance. That means your hair isn’t shaggy and unkempt (unless that’s a deliberate style choice), your clothes aren’t wrinkled or dirty, and your nails are clipped and clean. That doesn’t mean you have to go overboard and be something you’re not - your clothes should be clean, but they should also be items that you feel comfortable wearing. If you’re clean-shaven, then you shouldn’t be stubbly on a date, and if you have a beard or mustache then they should be neatly trimmed. And above all, make sure you smell good - shower and use deodorant. Remember that splashing on cologne is no substitute for a hot shower.

2. Make her laugh. That doesn’t mean that you should turn into a Catskills comedian on your date. But if you have a good sense of humor, use it! Polls consistently show that women find humor the most attractive thing about a man, above looks, money or an impressive career. Laughing together is an intimate act, and boosts endorphin levels. So if you can get her laughing, she’ll see you as a potential mate all the quicker.

3. Don’t give her a list of your faults. It’s become a common thing for people to ‘fess up to all of their flaws and bad behavior, thinking that it makes them look charmingly honest for admitting to their flaws. But look at it this way - if you were trying to sell a car, would you lead off by talking about the lousy gas mileage, the uncomfortable seats and the leaky sunroof? She’ll see your bad side soon enough. In the beginning, avoid talking too much about why you’re not a great catch - because she might believe you.

4. Care about what she has to say. Far too many men think that making a good impression means talking about themselves all night. And yes, you should tell her about your job and talk about the things that interest you. But ask her about her job, too, and her interests and her family and anything else that you can think of. Then remember what she tells you. If you’re on your third or fourth date and you remember that she loves a certain band or that her father recently had an operation, she’ll be impressed that you cared enough to pay attention to what she had to say - you might be shocked at how few men understand how important that is. Read the rest of this entry »

Aug
03

What To Avoid At Your First Date?

Posted by admin on August 3, 2008

Don’t fret. You are not alone. Many are afraid to be a lousy bad dates. Many have gone through the jitters too. And it is usual. Don’t be too hard on yourself by backing out just because you fell like you can’t make it. It’s just a matter of knowing what to avoid to make your date click. Be a nice date.

Here are an expert’s views of:

The EIGHT COMMANDMENTS OF DATING

“1. Thou shall not be late. Do all the necessary preparations ahead of time. I suggest that a night before the big day, choose your outfit already. So, that you won’t hurry dressing up for your date. You don’t want your partner to see you wearing the wrong pair of earrings. Make sure that when your guy knocks on your door, you are all set. Cramming is one disaster risk factor. So, be careful not to cram. Having your date stand for 10 minutes on your day will not create a nice impression.

2. Thou shall not narrate break-up history on thy date. For God’s sake don’t do this. You are supposed to have fun and not sour grape over your most recent break-up. And besides, past is past, bury them all on the ground and start anew. Your date is suppose to be a new prospect, not a shock absorber. Your friends have that role already. Instead of dwelling in the past, know this new guy in front of you more. Ask him about his stuff like - what he does, his kind of sports, hobbies, interests and more until such time you arrive at your common interest. Little do you know, that you have been talking for three hours straight and enjoying every minute of it.

3. Thou shall not be tongue- tied Don’t let your date ask you where your mouth is because you cannot think of anything to say. Or there’s something wrong with you because your answers are all monosyllables. Let him get to know you better. Tell him what you do on your work, on your free time, your favorite activities, sports and stuff. You can initiate a conversation to impress him more. Men want their women to be witty and sensible.

4. Thou shall not compare. The man in front of you is totally a different individual. It will be unfair Read the rest of this entry »


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