How to tell if He is a Lousy Date

Posted by admin on May 17, 2008

Man unconsciously force a woman to sometimes to reject you because he is behaving like a lousy bad date? Yes sometimes men do things or don’t do things which instantly kill all the attraction women naturally feel towards you. These are just 3 tips I gathered after all these years with women.

Asking all the wrong questions too early- Some men want to know his women faster so they thought the best strategy is to ask. Right. However, they did it the wrong way. The problem is that most of these questions are either too personal or shouldn’t be asked on the very first date. If you make a lousy first impression, it’s extremely difficult to get future dates. The first chance is your last chance.

Asking about the past too much- Before a man knows a woman fairly well, don’t try to dig up the past. Some past is best kept buried until such a time that it can see the light. When the time is ripe, the girl will tell whether you ask or not. Be patient about this. If you can’t help yourself, OK, ask but quit when you see that she is uncomfortable. She is entitled to her past and you have no business in her past.

Trying to be someone you aren’t- This is an instant kill-joy. Anytime she thinks that you are not genuine, she will lose interest in you. Anyway, how long can you fake? Unless you want to change for the girl, don’t pretend as you definitely cannot keep up with your performance and lies. Besides, it is real tiring.

Guys, if you have any tips how not to be a lousy date or how to be a nice date, feel free to share here. This invite is open to women as well.