10 Tips for Flirting - Easy Ways to Flirt Successfully

Posted by admin on September 2, 2008

Flirting is not always easy, especially if you haven’t had much practice. The following 10 flirting tips provides some general flirting ideas. Use these basic flirting tips to develop your own style. Do what is natural and put your own spin on these flirting tips.

Eye Contact

If someone catches your eye, try to catch theirs! Just make sure not to stare, you do not come off as crazy or creepy.

Wink

Everyone likes to get a wink now and then. Once you lock eyes across the room give a wink! In case she did not catch the signals you were sending, she will be sure to know you are interested when she gets your wink.

Smile

Send a bright and inviting smile. Who could resist it? You will appear cool, confident and approachable.

Compliments

Approach her with a compliment, “Wow, you smell amazing. What fragrance are you wearing?” or “You play a pretty mean game of pool.” Choose wisely, it’s your opening line.

Show Interest

Ask questions. Show that you are interest in learning more about them. Find common interests and make your move to book a date.

Be Yourself

You will both be the most comfortable if you be yourself. They want to know the real you, or at least the best parts of the real you. Don’t let it all hang out just yet. But do show them your best side.

Have Fun

Keep it light and fun. Make some tasteful jokes, laugh and have a good time. No one likes to be around a negative person. Leave your problems at home and enjoy the present. Show them a good time.

Touch

Engage in light and flirty touching. Stand close, dance, get to know each other. Too much touch can be a turn off, but she is sure to enjoy some physical contact.

Whisper

Whether you are whispering sweet nothings or conversing in a more intimate way, whispering is a great way to get closer. Have some mints handy. After getting this close, you don’t want anything to get in your way.

Relax

If you get this much game time, she must like something about you. Keep on flirting and let her know you would like to hang out again.

Above all else, be yourself. Chemistry will draw you to each other. Keep on flirting until you meet your match.

By Sarah Vogt

Note: I would add one more tips to Sarah’s interesting list, and that’s KISSING. You don’t have to french kiss and scare your date away. The right move, the right touch and the right kiss may get you 2 closer together. You might want to check this website that give tips on KISSING 101