When Her Answering Machine Picks Up

Posted by admin on September 22, 2008

You met a girl, you got her phone number, now you called and got her voicemail or a answering machine telling you to leave a message. What do you do now, leave a message or just hang up the phone? This will depend entirely on what you are planning to do next. If your plan is calling her again in a few hours or on another day, then you just hang up the phone and continue on with your day.

However, if this is the last time you plan on calling her until she contacts you then you can leave a message since you won’t be calling her again. Now, it is important that your message be short and to the point with just the basics.

Something along the lines of “this is _____ you can give me a call back when you get this at _________.”

Hopefully, you noticed that you didn’t tell her how she should know you, the reason for your call or that you didn’t plan on calling again. You didn’t tell her how she should know you because when you do you are assuming she won’t remember you.

And if she doesn’t remember you, she isn’t going to call back simply because you helped her remember. As for not giving her the reason for your call and your plans of not calling again, you withheld that because those are things that happen and are not told in messages.

In the end, if a woman really is interested in you, she will make sure that she gets in contact with you. Otherwise, you should look at the other options you have available.

By Teddy Shabba