Strong eye contact will turn a girl on. It shows that you are comfortable with yourself and others. A true alpha male will never break eye contact first, whether it be with a man or a woman. This might be very hard for you at first, but there is a simple task you can do which will give you strong eye contact skills. Walk around and make eye contact with everyone. Never break first. If its a guy chances are he’ll just look away, or if he holds it for a while usually a “whats up man” will follow as you pass. If a guy gets serious with you saying something dumb like “what are you lookin’ at buddy” just say “thought you were an old friend, guess I’m wrong.”

Doing this with girls is fun. Whatever reaction she gives you, you can feel free to give back. If you get a smile, give a smile. If you get a hi, give a hi. Confident girls will hold eye contact and almost always smile. Unconfident girls will look away. Work on this every day and you will have strong eye contact skills, possibly the most important tool for picking up girls.

By Nathan Tyrock

One of the main reasons that women test men is to make sure that you are paying attention to her. No matter how long you are with a women, every here and there she will say something just to make sure you are paying attention to her.

Another reason is to make sure you are the a strong men. Yeah, women test us to see if we are the same strong guys that they have meet in the beginning of the relationship. Women want to be next to a strong and confident man. So the worst thing you can do with a women that is testing you is to become a ‘wussie’. When she start testing you tease her and act in a confident manner. She will understand.

When a women starts making these kind of tests with you, just give her a kiss and  tell her that you are not a kid anymore and that you won’t tolerate a childish attitude of her. Of course, tell her in a respectable manner, but show some confidence on yourself.

By Johan M Krost

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Do you know how eye contact is important? Only by observing the way someone makes eye contact you can say a lot about her personality. I guess you already heard that its always good to make a good eye contact. If you don’t make the necessary eye contact, you are most of the times considered a shy person.

So to know if a girl likes you, you just need to briefly make eye contact with her. You don’t need to stare are her, in some bizarre way. Just a simple eye contact at her with a gentle smile. If she smiles back, BINGO, she likes you. Yeah, its easy as that. This technique is amazing and can save you from several rejections. Make eye contact, smile at her and see if she smiles back. If she does, go head and start a conversation with her.

This is a technique of body language. If you want to become a master seducer, you definitly need to learn body language skills. Eye contact plays a major role in the seduction game and the more info you learn about it, the better.

By Johan M Krost

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Seduction is about right now with a woman both physically and emotionally. Let’s face it if a woman has a choice between an athletic and fit body or a chubby body most women are going to choose the athletic and fit body. Seduction means your ability to trigger a woman’s attraction for you. This starts from the first moment you meet a woman. Seduction its an art.

Imagine yourself being in rapport with a woman in a social setting and being in this state. Imagine being able to have a stress-free and fun conversation with a woman. Now you can learn the art of talking with women confidently and easily. Imagine you forgot to brush your teeth or something like that!

Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want. The average guy, who’s riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women. Confidence and assuredness matter MUCH more than looks to women–yes, even the hot ones! Instead, have fun with yourself.

So the first steps to seduce a women is to be confident and make rapport with her. These are the basic steps that will build your foundation with women. Always keep learning and you will succeed.

By Johan M Krost

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Woman desire men who pay attention to detail, especially woman who are beautiful. Woman need to feel wanted and needed. They need to feel that they are the only one for you.

But they vital key to seduce women is confidence. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others will as well. Confidence and Cockiness are two things that women find irresistible. If you are confident in yourself a woman can see that and will be drawn to that. Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don’t let a rejection get under your skin.

Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don’t let a rejection get under your skin.

Success only came when you stop worrying about how to attract women. Instead, you should worry about how to be happy with yourself. Success is not a get rich quick scheme and will not happen over night. It takes time and hard work to get your seduction plan up and running. Success generally comes with simple approach.

By Johan M Krost

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1. Take extra care in your grooming. This is the first item on the list because it’s the most important. Good grooming shows other people that you care enough about yourself to do basic physical maintenance. That means your hair isn’t shaggy and unkempt (unless that’s a deliberate style choice), your clothes aren’t wrinkled or dirty, and your nails are clipped and clean. That doesn’t mean you have to go overboard and be something you’re not - your clothes should be clean, but they should also be items that you feel comfortable wearing. If you’re clean-shaven, then you shouldn’t be stubbly on a date, and if you have a beard or mustache then they should be neatly trimmed. And above all, make sure you smell good - shower and use deodorant. Remember that splashing on cologne is no substitute for a hot shower.

2. Make her laugh. That doesn’t mean that you should turn into a Catskills comedian on your date. But if you have a good sense of humor, use it! Polls consistently show that women find humor the most attractive thing about a man, above looks, money or an impressive career. Laughing together is an intimate act, and boosts endorphin levels. So if you can get her laughing, she’ll see you as a potential mate all the quicker.

3. Don’t give her a list of your faults. It’s become a common thing for people to ‘fess up to all of their flaws and bad behavior, thinking that it makes them look charmingly honest for admitting to their flaws. But look at it this way - if you were trying to sell a car, would you lead off by talking about the lousy gas mileage, the uncomfortable seats and the leaky sunroof? She’ll see your bad side soon enough. In the beginning, avoid talking too much about why you’re not a great catch - because she might believe you.

4. Care about what she has to say. Far too many men think that making a good impression means talking about themselves all night. And yes, you should tell her about your job and talk about the things that interest you. But ask her about her job, too, and her interests and her family and anything else that you can think of. Then remember what she tells you. If you’re on your third or fourth date and you remember that she loves a certain band or that her father recently had an operation, she’ll be impressed that you cared enough to pay attention to what she had to say - you might be shocked at how few men understand how important that is.

5. Pick up the check. It doesn’t really matter what you, your friends or your date feel about women’s issues - most women are old-fashioned when it comes to who pays on a date. Once you’ve won her heart, the two of you can split all the checks you like. In the beginning, though, you should absolutely, positively pay for dinner. If she’s really insistent about paying her share, tell her she can get the check next time or tell her she can pay for the movie and you’ll take car of dinner. But whatever you do, don’t split a check, especially on the very first date - it makes you look cheap, and you’ll lose points.

6. Don’t talk about old girlfriends or ex-wives. This ties into #3 above. You shouldn’t hide the fact that you’ve had other relationships, but you shouldn’t talk about them much, either, especially if you don’t have anything nice to say. If you’re harboring anger towards the women in your past, that can make you look bitter and petty in the eyes of your new flame. If you say too many good things about an ex, on the other hand, she may wonder if you have unresolved feelings for your ex. Discretion, as they say, is the better part of valor - there’s a reason why etiquette experts have always said that a gentleman doesn’t discuss his past conquests!

7. Be true to your word. Women value honesty, and many become a bit gun-shy about dating after having had their trust betrayed by men they care about. So do what you say you will - like, say, call her the next day - and follow through on your commitments. That means that you should be on time for dates and do everything you promise you’ll do, whether it’s pick up Chinese food for dinner or come over to meet her parents. If you don’t show her that you can be trusted, at best she’ll think you’re a flake - at worst she’ll assume that you’re a liar who could be cheating on her or worse. A trustworthy man is a catch, and worth his weight in gold - so be that guy and win her heart!

Cucan Pemo

PS: And don’t blow it by being a lousy kisser. A girl friend says if a man cannot kiss, he is likely to be a failure on bed. For guys who has doubts about his kissing skills, go grab a tip or two at this interesting website calls  KISSING 101. Let me know if it works fro you

Here are an expert’s views of:

The EIGHT COMMANDMENTS OF DATING

“1. Thou shall not be late. Do all the necessary preparations ahead of time. I suggest that a night before the big day, choose your outfit already. So, that you won’t hurry dressing up for your date. You don’t want your partner to see you wearing the wrong pair of earrings. Make sure that when your guy knocks on your door, you are all set. Cramming is one disaster risk factor. So, be careful not to cram. Having your date stand for 10 minutes on your day will not create a nice impression.

2. Thou shall not narrate break-up history on thy date. For God’s sake don’t do this. You are supposed to have fun and not sour grape over your most recent break-up. And besides, past is past, bury them all on the ground and start anew. Your date is suppose to be a new prospect, not a shock absorber. Your friends have that role already. Instead of dwelling in the past, know this new guy in front of you more. Ask him about his stuff like - what he does, his kind of sports, hobbies, interests and more until such time you arrive at your common interest. Little do you know, that you have been talking for three hours straight and enjoying every minute of it.

3. Thou shall not be tongue- tied Don’t let your date ask you where your mouth is because you cannot think of anything to say. Or there’s something wrong with you because your answers are all monosyllables. Let him get to know you better. Tell him what you do on your work, on your free time, your favorite activities, sports and stuff. You can initiate a conversation to impress him more. Men want their women to be witty and sensible.

4. Thou shall not compare. The man in front of you is totally a different individual. It will be unfair to pattern him to your previous guy or make a note of comparison. What you should do is discover this new person in front of you and forget the past guy even his name if you wish to. Comparison as your standards will not put you anywhere. It will just make your date a disaster. And please, do not dare verbalize your notes of comparison with your date.

5. Thou shall not come in thy worst appearance. Hey, you are dating because you want to hook up with the right guy this time. So, you have to create a good impression. Don’t make your date run away from you because you look like you’ve come from another planet with your dress, haven’t taken a bath for days and smell like garbage. Be on your best attire. Look good and smell fresh. That way, you can captivate his attention the entire time you are together. And he’ll be proud of you as a date.

6. Thou shall not be silly. The worst thing you can be is looking silly. Do not talk things as if you’re a pro if in reality you are clueless. You would end up saying the wrong things that will confuse your date a lot. Look smart. If you happen to be unaware of what he’s saying about the sports hockey, ask him questions. He will even be amused because you are paying interest on what he is talking about.

7. Thou shall not be aloof. Guys will be uncomfortable if they notice that their date seems to be aloof with them. Remember, it is both your first time to see each other. So, he is equally nervous about your date. Don’t make him feel more nervous by being distant. Let him feel that you intend to enjoy the night with him. Be friendly enough to give him your sweet smile. Don’t give him a cold shoulder. If he feels that you welcome his presence, he’d be motivated to ask you for another date.

8. Thou shall not be nervous. Don’t worry too much on having a great date instead enjoy your date. If you feel nervous, you’re most likely to shake. It will be embarrassing if your date caught you holding a glass shaking. Don’t be over powered with his presence. Show him you can manage yourself well. Be confident. Look straight in his eyes when you answer his questions. Flash your best smile. Amuse him with your wits and looks. Guys love women who are empowered.”

Extracted from Oscar E. Walter

Note: If you are wondering whether you should kiss, how to kiss or stuff like that during your coming first date, I’d suggest you stop fretting and pop over this interesting website calls KISSING 101. And let me know if it works for you. Good luck.

1. Kissing is one of the oldest expressions of love. You can see it everywhere from a mother kissing her child good night. A grandmother giving her grandchild a good bye kiss or a very romantic French kiss between two lovers.

2. Nobody was born knowing how to kiss so just like anything else you get better with practice. It’s not an easy thing to get a bunch of practice in this so don’t be embarrassed when you’re not very good at it at first.

3. We can thank the French for introducing the act of French Kissing. While kissing has always been a universal sign of love French Kissing or the intimate play of tongues was introduced to us by the western world, from there it has spread around the world.

4. You can’t rush that first kiss with a new girl. You have to make sure that the girl is willing to go for this kiss. If she looks nervous and fidgety then it might not be the right time to go for that first kiss. This might be a good time to give her some space.

5. I would not recommend French kissing on the first date unless you know the date your on is only meant for one thing. Other than that French kissing should be saved for the last or next date.

6. Girls hate when guys shove their tongues down their throats and make it impossible for them to breathe. Therefore you as a guy have to be careful to keep it comfortable for the girl. Remember your sharing a very intimate moment so if you make it uncomfortable the feelings will be gone out of it real quick.

7. If you really want to turn your girl off then come at her with your tongue hanging out. This will turn off even the most promiscuous girl. You have to be able to read her and if the girl is willing to get a little friskier then use your imagination and go ahead and push a little farther.

Most times taking it slow is the best way to go. However if you and your partner come out of a long passionate kissing session tired and exhausted then you are probably headed in the right direction. It means she is enjoying it as much as you and chances are she will go further but remember rushing things will get you into trouble.

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Dale Mazurek

The most frequently stated comment in singles dating is, “I just can’t find a date.” Most often times the answer is simple and something that the person is overlooking. It may be that they are still attached to their ex-lover or they have a peculiar little imperfection that could be fixed. For example, if Jimmy has bushy eyebrows and one particular hair that is wiry and sticks out, what do you think his date will spend the night looking at? Well of course, looking at that wild hair. So the best thing for you to do is find a friend or family member that is brutally honest and ask. In most cases they will tell you what the problem is and why you may not get another date. In singles dating there is some obvious turn off that you should really try to avoid. Issues like body odor, bad breath, personal grooming and your conversation habits can really turn off that potential mate. So before you go out on your singles date, look in the mirror and ask would I want to go out with me?

Do not dwell in the past if potential mate thinks that you are still in love with your ex you can kiss them goodbye. No one wants to be in a rebound relationship. Unfortunately a large population of using singles dating are based on the rebound. This can destroy a relationship very quickly. So make sure that you are over your ex before reentering the singles dating scene. Another problem that many face is that their date will probe and ask too many personal questions in the conversation. Keep your conversations light and on the surface until you know the individual a bit better. Questions can come at a later time. Most that are single dating are not looking for an interrogation so keep the questions to a minimum.

When going on singles dating adventure be polite and make sure that you act appropriately. Many times men will try and impress the female with their macho style ending up offending the waiter or bellhop. Women will over compensate and talk about how they booted the last man out. Don’t do this, be yourself and focus on a pleasant conversation and evening. When dating you do not have to prove how manly or strong you are, just have a good time. The rest will come later, you can let your hair down after a while but not while you are on your singles date. Your date will likely be watching your manners and actions so remember this and be on your best behavior.

Some people make the mistake of speaking about politics or other controversial issues while singles dating. This can be a disaster if you both have differing opinions, you can offend each other very carefully. Try and talk about things that are not going to ruffle the feathers of the other person. You can dig in and discuss those issues at a later date. See if you are compatible first and then discuss your opinion later. Remember everyone has an opinion but not everyone wants to hear yours!

Singles dating is fun and a great way to meet a potential mate. Take the evening for what it is worth and just maybe you will have a connection. If the sparks are not flying than wait it out and finish the evening like a courtesy individual. Do not get up and leave or tell your date how lousy they are. Word gets around in the single dating arena and you could become a marked individual. In other words be respectful. This is the key to any good date, respect and kindness. It goes along way, which can help you find your soul mate.

by Elanie Olden

A good wife material can be described as one who is well educated and who earns considerably good amount of money. Many men would not prefer an aggressive professional woman. Many would opt for a kindergarten teacher over a lawyer. This description emerges from respondents who are given a list of choices to pick a potential date. Many chooses people who look like less a challenge to them. Both men and women share the view that the ideal husband should be some years older than the potential wife. They also have a perception that the husband should be preferably taller. Women tend to prefer greater differences compared to men. An older man has more sex appeal to majority of women.

Many people are so choosy when it comes to partners until they hit the of age of 40 after which they begin acquiring a don’t care attitude. They care less about slender body shape and are more attracted to nurse-like women. They are observed to prefer women who put on formal attire. What appeals them sexually changes compared to when they were younger. It is surprising to learn that men who have children are more specific compared to those who are childless. They are more drawn to a woman who dresses formally perhaps to counterpoint to their very own household preoccupations. The sex appeal is greatly influenced by the way of dressing of a potential wife.

At the back of every man’s mind the sex appeal determines how far you can go together. According to how sexually appealing you are, you can either turn out to be a real wife or a pure date pursuit. This was clearly shown by the survey. The preference is made with respect to social and personal body features. People who were meeting blind dates on a mission of spouse hunting gave different choices with those who were meeting blind dates on pure fun grounds. A man would be more attracted to a curvaceous girl on a pure date. For a wife, he would want a less curved woman who has less aggressive sexual attitudes. Sex appeal in a potential marriage partner goes far beyond the natural beauty and the physical appearance. It is the inner beauty that makes someone an ideal spouse with great sexual appeal.

By Francis K Githinji