Pressures of Avoiding Rejection From Women
Here is the interesting thing about men who attempt to avoid rejection from women; the moment they find themselves interacting with a woman, the pressure in their mind is much greater than the reality of the situation warrants.
In addition, thanks to their desire to avoid rejection, they also find themselves with fewer options than they should have in the situation.
Your desire to avoid rejection makes the few interactions you do have with a woman “one shot” deals and when you take that shot and miss instead of learning from it and moving on, you find yourself attempting a do over with her, at least in your mind. › Continue reading
When Her Answering Machine Picks Up
You met a girl, you got her phone number, now you called and got her voicemail or a answering machine telling you to leave a message. What do you do now, leave a message or just hang up the phone? This will depend entirely on what you are planning to do next. If your plan is calling her again in a few hours or on another day, then you just hang up the phone and continue on with your day.
However, if this is the last time you plan on calling her until she contacts you then you can leave a message › Continue reading
Are You Not Being Loved For Who You Are?
It’s a prevailing idea in the dating game that you shouldn’t have to try to be someone else to make a man love you. A man should be able to love you for who you are – the real woman inside – and not someone you pretend to be. And if he can’t do that, well, then that’s his problem, and not yours. Women everywhere say this sort of thing all the time.
Sure, that’s the way things work… in an ideal world.
If you listen to these same women as they tell you about their own past relationships, you’ll realize that their dating lives are far from ideal. It’s easy to hear stories about how they weren’t loved for who they were, even if they were great women. It leads them to the conclusion that men these days simply don’t want to be with real women anymore.
Actually, that assumption is far from true – men actually do love real women. As the men make mistakes along the way in their relationships, these women sometimes forget the fact that they themselves make mistakes as well. Here are some of the biggest mistakes that great women make, which keep them from being loved for who they are.
Keeping negative thoughts is probably the most common mistake made by great women. These women have probably gone through a few relationships with men that didn’t go too well in the past. The problem is that these women don’t forget about the bad times, and instead turn them into “guidelines” in judging any new men who walk into their lives.
Unfortunately, men can sense these negative vibes a mile away. › Continue reading
How to Approach Women Successfully?
You may be the best looking guy around town and can continue to rant on how girls would fall at the sound of your voice but until you take the initiative to approach any lady, whatever you claim will just be claims. The truth of the matter is that most guys are afraid to approach the women that they are eyeing. Especially for guys who have been rejected before, they are afraid to experience another bruised ego if they were to be rejected again.
But are women that hard to approach in real life? Here are some wonderful tips to help you with.
1. Do not hesitate
Women love to see confident guys approach them and seeing they body language of a guy approaching them, they immediately are able to detect whatever you are trying to do. Nervous guys are a turn off for women and not only would you be rejected, it will make you more against approaching a lady in the future as your ego takes a harder hit because of the incident. Keep calm and remain confident, or you would have lost the battle before it has already begun.
2. Keep trying
Thomas Edison did not figure out what material to use for the filament of a light bulb in an instant but he stayed positive and eventually achieved success. Similarly, if you do not succeed for the first time, do not be dismayed! There are millions of other girls that you have yet to approach, so what makes you think that just because one of them rejects you, the other will too? It is important to remain calm and confident and not let yourself be affected by a setback.
3. Have a good topic to converse about
It would be great if you can be able to plan out what you want to do first before › Continue reading
3 Surprising Ways To Instantly Tell If A Guy Likes You Back
What can you do if you like a guy but you don’t know if he likes you back? It’s a frustrating situation, because you’d feel stupid if you aggressively asked him out and he turned you down, that would be incredibly embarrassing!
Well, here are 3 surprising ways to tell if a guy likes you back, and it takes all the risk out of it.
First, it’s important to look at this from the guy’s point of view. No matter how nervous or embarrassed you may be about wanting to know if he likes you, he’s got it worse.
Why? Because he’s the one who’s supposed to stick his neck out there and possibly get shot down. So the way to find out if he likes you is to open the door a little and see if he sticks his head through.
By removing HIS risk to show you that he likes you, you’re removing your risk as well. So here’s how to do it: › Continue reading
10 Tips for Flirting – Easy Ways to Flirt Successfully
Flirting is not always easy, especially if you haven’t had much practice. The following 10 flirting tips provides some general flirting ideas. Use these basic flirting tips to develop your own style. Do what is natural and put your own spin on these flirting tips.
Eye Contact
If someone catches your eye, try to catch theirs! Just make sure not to stare, you do not come off as crazy or creepy.
Wink
Everyone likes to get a wink now and then. Once you lock eyes across the room give a wink! In case she did not catch the signals you were sending, she will be sure to know you are interested when she gets your wink.
Smile
Send a bright and inviting smile. Who could resist it? You will appear cool, confident and approachable.
Compliments
Approach her with a compliment, “Wow, you smell amazing. What fragrance are you wearing?” or “You play a pretty mean game of pool.” Choose wisely, it’s your opening line. › Continue reading
Why is Eye Contact Important?
Eye contact is one of the most powerful tools any man can use when attracting and seducing a woman. Strong eye contact is rare. If you make eye contact, you’d be surprised how quickly most people’s eyes will dart away. When you make eyes with a woman, never break eye contact first. Even if it has been 10 seconds (which is an Eternity when staring into the eyes of a stranger) do NOT BREAK. If anything, at that point you could stick your tongue out or something silly to break the tension.
Strong eye contact will turn a girl on. It shows that you are comfortable with yourself and others. A true alpha male will never break eye contact first, whether it be with a man or a woman. This might be very hard for you at first, but there is a simple task you can do which will give you strong eye contact skills. Walk around and make eye contact with everyone. Never break first. If its a guy chances are he’ll just look away, or if he holds it for a while usually a “whats up man” will follow as you pass. If a guy gets serious with you saying something dumb like “what are you lookin’ at buddy” just say “thought you were an old friend, guess I’m wrong.”
Doing this with girls is fun. Whatever reaction she gives you, you can feel free to give back. If you get a smile, give a smile. If you get a hi, give a hi. Confident girls will hold eye contact and almost always smile. Unconfident girls will look away. Work on this every day and you will have strong eye contact skills, possibly the most important tool for picking up girls.
Make Women Attracted To You By Teasing Her
Women are emotional beings, different from us, men. We think more by logic, women rely more on the emotional side of things. Thats why sometimes we find it so hard to understand women. One of those things is that women is always testing us. They are always doing something that will bother us or annoy us to see how we will react. In this article i will tell you why women test guys and how you can deal with it.
One of the main reasons that women test men is to make sure that you are › Continue reading
A Simple Technique To Know If A Women Likes You
When you are in the beginning of the seduction game, it becomes quite scary to approach a girl without knowing if she likes you. It can ruin your self-esteem for some time. But for your luck, theres a simple technique that will allow you to know instantly if a girl likes you, in a few seconds. In this article i will tell how to use this very simple but effective technique to know if a girl likes you.
Do you know how eye contact is important? › Continue reading
Seduction – Its An Art – Learn The Basic Steps
Seduction its an art. To become a master seducer you must possess certain abilities. Seduction is about gentle persuasion. Resist the urge to rip off her clothes at the heat of the moment. Seduction is a thing that a lot of men over years have researched, tried, and tested with varying results. Here are just a few things you should keep in mind when trying to seduce the woman of your dreams.
Seduction is about right now with a woman both physically and emotionally. Let’s face it if a woman has a choice between an athletic and fit body or a chubby body most women are going to choose the athletic and fit body. Seduction means your ability to trigger a woman’s attraction for you. This starts from the first moment you meet a woman. Seduction its an art.
Imagine yourself being in rapport with a woman in a social setting and being in this state. Imagine being able to have a stress-free and fun conversation with a woman. Now you can learn the art of talking with women confidently and easily. Imagine you forgot to brush your teeth or something like that!
Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want. The average guy, who’s riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women. Confidence and assuredness matter MUCH more than looks to women–yes, even the hot ones! Instead, have fun with yourself.
So the first steps to seduce a women is to be confident and make rapport with her. These are the basic steps that will build your foundation with women. Always keep learning and you will succeed.
PS: OK, OK, if you can’t resist not to touch her, well, kiss her appropriately. Don’t know how? Go see this interesting website calls KISSING 101.
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