What Do I Do If My Date is Ugly?

OK, this is an exaggeration, but seriously, what can you do if you turn up for a blind date and find this? Some people might find it fun. But your taste might differ.

Frankly, it is a situation that has happened to many of us. Yet, how we handle it will make a difference between whether we live our lives smiling, or we frown for a living. If you view everything as a disaster, then inevitably, they will be disasters. But if you are prepared to see the good in all things, then you have a chance to be a happier person.

Here are some do’s and don’ts

Do:

1. Shake hands, and give a polite introduction of yourself
2. Continue with the date, be it a dinner, lunch or movie
3. Do be polite, civil and try to enjoy the evening

Dont:

1. Please do not scream, throw up or flee the scene
2. Do not hold your nose while shaking hands
3. Do not get angry with the “nice” people who set you up

Now, no matter how unique a person looks, that is only the outer shell. Sure, we do form opinions based on the first impression; which usually means how a person looks. However, that need not be the end of it. After all, there might be a humorous, fun-loving person inside. Ugliness is a matter of taste and perception. What is ugly to you is cute to another.

Dating is all about getting to know a person. Would you like to meet a great hunky guy who beats up his women for fun? Would you like to meet a gorgeous gal who throws tantrums at your family get-togethers?